“My mission is to help Christian women redefine their painful experiences so that they can find hope, experience inner healing, deepen their faith, and discover their purpose.”

Stephanie Lauren Jordan

About This Website

We all end up having to face situations we never expected—inflicting emotional, mental, and relational damage in our lives. The pain of this world is inescapable and unavoidable, but there’s still a hopeful way forward: we can redefine our pain.

Say what?? Redefine pain? Yep! By taking the very situations we thought would destroy us and learning to see them instead as an opportunity for growth, we redefine what our pain means and what it does in our life. In doing so we can find hope, experience inner healing, deepen our faith, and discover our purpose.

The content shared on this website is created for, and centered on, this mission of helping Christian women redefine painful experiences. Everything is faith-based and mental health-focused to help you process, grow, and thrive through life’s unexpected and painful circumstances.

My Story

In 2020 I went through divorce. It was pretty sudden and it was not something I wanted or initiated. But I couldn’t change or control the situation, and I knew I couldn’t let myself get stuck in worry, fear, rejection, and depression. So I had to find a way through it, and that’s when I learned what it meant to redefine pain. Now, I use that experience to inspire what I write and to shape how I connect with others.

Of course, my hope and my faith ultimately rests in a day where we don’t experience anymore pain (Revelation 21:4), but my passion and my work right now is to help people like you in their present pain.

I’ve always been a firm believer in continual self-growth for the duration of life. The content I put out is a direct result of that. My writing and speaking comes from dedicated study, professional resources and certifications, my own experiences and growth, and the people I’ve helped along the way.